The Right To Grow

Yes. No apologies. Sometimes we get into a mindset that once we are a certain way, have these or those beliefs and opinions, interests....etc...we will stay that way. Or...we want the OTHER person to stay that way.

I believe this mindset, this sometime rigidity with ourselves and others, harms us. Makes it very difficult to be in a relationship with a real-life person who makes mistakes. Makes it very difficult to be in a relationship with YOURSELF!

And often it is a hold over from a childhood which might have felt chaotic, abusive...where a child never felt seen or heard or had any power. Trying to keep things the same can feel comforting. 

If this is something that is hurting you - your rigidity - let's talk. I offer free 30 minute consultations. Call or text 360-432-1236 to schedule.