Living with illusion is often what we do if we have come from families that hurt us, shamed us, wronged us. Illusion is a survival tool. Illusion is a way to keep on going. And yet, in the end as we grow up and become adults, it can really hurt us. We cannot 'see' the world and people around us as they really are.
This is not, of course, everyone. But yes, many of us.
How does living with illusion hurt you? How has it gotten in the way of having the life you really want, the relationships you want? The life you believe you deserve and yet can never seem to achieve.
I have been there and I have learned how to sort through the illusion that hurt me for so long.
I can help if you are willing to take the steps, have the courage. Call/text 360-432-1236.
I really like this quote, and, I know that for many of us, not letting others destroy our inner peace is a learning process. We do not feel we deserve to stick up for ourselves, to tell people our truth, to simply ignore what others do that bugs us.
So what is the process? First digging deep into our early lives to discover where, when and with whom we began to doubt ourselves. And this can be before we are even born. To examine those experiences and to discover what we began to believe and how we began to behave. If a little one believes, based on a situation, that she/he is powerless or does not matter, their behavior will reflect that. Putting up, not speaking up, living under the radar. Or conversely, in an effort to get attention, acting out.
Either way - under the radar or acting out- still are positions of powerlessness.
Attending to the part that gets triggered and learning, as an adult, that you do have choices in how you let others impact you is part of the growing up process. Parenting that little one is part of the maturing process.
I wish we all had upbringings with people who supported us, believed in us, let us know we had rights. I wish that were true. And, it often is not.
If you are needing help in learning how more choices in your behavior and thoughts can assist you now, call/text 360-432-1236. I can help.
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