How do you ask for help?
Do you get nervous...butterflies in your tummy, sweaty palms even thinking about asking for help?
If you do, I would say you are like most people. Including me!
So I am curious: what do you need help with today (project, idea, organizing, etc) that you are NOT doing because it is too much, too hard, too emotional to do alone?
For me, at this time in my life, I need help with getting my 'final papers' in order like my Do or Do Not Resuscitate Order. It is scary to do that and I keep putting it off although my dear daughter has said numerous times that she will help.
So the next question is: IF you did ask for help with your project, idea or organizing, how would your life be better?
For me, I would feel more content knowing I had done that for my loved ones. I believe I would feel more peace.
So what about you? What is stopping you? Holding you back? Keeping you from asking for what you need when you know it will help you?
If you need...assistance with this, reach out to me! Call/text 360-432-1236. I can help. As you can see, I, too, struggle with the same things you do. Together I know we can help you!
"Whenever you are creating beauty around you, you are restoring your own soul". Alice Walker
Creating beauty. Enjoying beauty. SEEING beauty. All take time and consciousness. We need to pay attention daily to create, enjoy and see beauty.
And sometimes we are so 'checked out' that we cannot do any of these things. Or maybe not for a day. A week. Even an hour.
So check in with you: are you noticing beauty around you? Are you creating - whatever that means to you. Are you really seeing what is around you: beauty in all forms, ways, shapes and colors.
If you are checked out and want some help 'coming back'...I can help. Call/text me at 360-432-1236 for a free consultation and we can talk about how to help you!
I love this: "Piglet noticed that even though he had a very small head, it could hold a rather large amount of Gratitude." A.A. Milne
Ahhh...Winnie the Pooh and Piglet. I think I need to read these classics again! That is something to be grateful for: Winnie the Pooh! And Piglet!
Sometimes, some days, weeks or even months it is hard to feel grateful. To find that 'gratitude' that our culture talks about, tweets about, has classes about. As I said in a previous post, when I am feeling cranky it is hard to find the 'gratitude button'.
So be easy with yourself. Easy. Kind. Compassionate. Sometimes when we are in the 'thick' of life it IS hard to see beyond the door, our job, our relationship/s.
So be easy. Be kind. Maybe there is one small glimmer of gratitude you can find, like Winnie the Pooh. Your warm cup of coffee in the morning. Your bed. Does not matter. Just be with what you feel about that...and you know what? That is enough! You are enough. THAT is all you need to do. Or may want to do.
If you are having trouble giving yourself permission to BE YOU...in all that you are and want some help, call/text me 360-432-1236. Let's talk about what you need and want. I might be able to help. The consultation is free.
I am a catalyst for others, helping people continue, over their entire life span - preconception, conception, in the womb and after - to grow, learn, heal so that each person can live their deepest longings. This is my passion.
Adventurer, lover of beauty, seeking clarity, harmony & balance. Compassionate. Just. Fair. Grateful. Hugely grateful.